July 31, 2018
Trusting the Athlete
For coaches, the temptation to be too hands-on on race day is very real. It’s a temptation I’ve learned to avoid over the years. At USATF Junior Olympic Nationals this past weekend in Greensboro, NC, a younger coach asked me if, after all these years, I still get nervous when my athletes compete. I laughed and answered “I sure do. The day I no longer get nervous prior to an athlete’s big race is the day I need to stop coaching.” But at the same time, I don’t want to pass on any nervous energy to my athlete. I want my athlete to know that I care, that I’m in it to win it as much as he or she is, but I don’t want him or her feeling that I doubt his or her abilities to come through on the big stage. I want to exude confidence, and I want that confidence to be real.
At this year’s nationals, I had four hurdlers competing – all of whom I coach privately. And because so much of coaching is about relationship building, a coach’s emotional investment in an athlete’s success can be very intense. The more we get to know these athletes as people, and the more we find ourselves growing as individuals as a result of our relationships with our athletes, the more we care about them, and the more we want to see them succeed.